11 Effective Black Magic Love Spells & Love Incense (Full Guide)

Want to make a beautiful man or woman fall in love with you? Both white and black magic love spells have been used for centuries to entice the flames of love.

The difference between black magic and white magic love spells has very little to do with the spells themselves, which are often done in the same manner. Also, the same magical mechanism of cause-and-effect is at play behind the scenes once you’ve cast the spell.

The real difference is in the intentions of the caster of the spell. A white magic spell is a way of opening the energetic channel for love to blossom between two potential lovers. It can set the right environment, but it doesn’t influence the Will of the desired person. It can also be used to rekindle waning fire in a relationship.

On the other hand, black magic love spells are used to manipulate the mind (and heart) of a love interest who would otherwise not be interested at all. Imagine attracting a person who you already know is not interested in you, but you’re in love with or want as a lover. Such are the results of black magic.

Black Magic Love Spells

These spells can be used as either white or black magic, depending on your intentions. Put the desired intent into the spell and you will also change the type of magic you’re performing.

White magic is more limited and more ethical, because you’re letting the other person show their true interest or disinterested without influencing their Will. Whereas putting all your intention into the final goal will lead you on the dark path to (almost) guaranteed success.

But I warn you to use these spells as black magic only if you’ve thought about the consequences for long enough. Black magic can often lead to tragic results in the future, even if you get everything you’ve always wanted in the beginning.

1. A Spell to Evoke a Romantic Response

If you are attracted to someone but there is no response, this spell may
do the trick. It won’t make them fall for you, but it will make sure that
nothing stands in the way. The spell works best if it is cast on a Friday.

You will need:

  • A wine glass
  • A plain gold ring
  • 80 cm of red ribbon
  • A crystal of rose quartz
  • A bowl of red flowers
  • A picture of the person you wish to attract, if available


Stand the wine glass on your altar. Thread the ribbon through the ring
to make a pendulum and, holding the ribbon between your thumb and
forefinger, let the ring hang in the rim of the glass, without letting it
touch the sides.

Say aloud your name and the name of the person you are attracted to.
Pause for a moment then repeat both names again and then once more.
Look at the picture (if you don’t have one, bring one into your mind’s
eye) and spell their name out loud. As you say each letter, let the ring tap
against the glass.

Tie the ribbon round your neck, the ring resting on your heart and bring
the magic making to an end. Wear it for three weeks, taking it off only
to repeat the spell on the next three Fridays.

If after the end of the third week there has been no sign that your
interest is being reciprocated, then perhaps it’s time to realize that some
things are never meant to be.

2. A Spell to Win Affections

This spell takes time to cast its magic but if, after a week or two, the
person whose affections you are trying to win does not seem to be
responding then perhaps the fates are advising you to look elsewhere for

You will need:

  • An onion
  • A new flowerpot
  • Potting compost
  • A bolline or burin (see pages 36-37)
  • Jasmine essential oil
  • Patience


Scratch the name of the person you are in love with on the base of the
onion with the bolline or burin and plant it in the flowerpot. Focus on
the flowerpot for a moment or two, then say:

Plant take root and grow shoots.
Shoots grow into leaves.
May a flower bloom among them.
And as the flower blooms,
May *******’s love for me
Take root, bloom and flower.
And let it be done, that it harm no one.

Close the magic making in your usual way, before putting the pot on a
window sill that faces the direction in which your love lives. Repeat the
incantation every day until the first flower appears and if by then there
has been no reaction then look to pastures new.

3. A Spell that has Worked for Many

This is one of many spells that have been developed over the centuries
by young women eager for love. It has worked for many of them. There
is no reason why it shouldn’t work for you.

You will need:

  • A very fragrant, fresh red rose
  • Two red candles


Before you consecrate the rose and the candles find out what time the
sun will rise on the following morning. Put the rose and the candles on
the altar, one candle on either side of the flower. If you wish to leave a
suitable crystal or talisman alongside the candles, so much the better.

Next morning at sunrise take the rose outside, breathe in its sweet
perfume and then hold it in front of you. Focus on it for a moment or
two, then say:

Flower of love, please let it be,
That true love is coming to me.
And let it be done, that it harm no one.

Go indoors and lay the rose between the candles and light them. Focus
on the flame and see true love burning in the heart of the one you
want to attract. Or, if you have no one special in mind, bring to
mind someone with features and a nature you find attractive.

Keep the candles burning until the rose loses its bloom,
then extinguish them, before burying the rose in the
garden. If you do not have access to a garden you could press the rose
between the pages of a favourite book of poems.

4. A Spell with No One Particular in Mind

This spell is cast by those looking for true love, but who have no
particular person in mind. It should be cast out of doors beside a stream
or river.

You will need:

  • Rose petals from a living, wild rose


Wiccans will approach the rose with reverence and ask its permission
before removing the petals. Then they will thank it for its generosity.

As you are plucking the petals, visualize someone who has all the
qualities you think are necessary in the ideal partner – humour,
generosity, compassion, whatever. Take the petals to a stream or river,
hold them in cupped hands and, again visualizing the qualities you are
looking for, let them drop into the flowing water, saying:

As this bloom is taken downstream
May I find the love of which I dream.
And let it be done, that it harm no one.
The spell is cast.

5. A Spell for Love Within the Month

This spell is most potent if cast when the moon is new. And as the object
of the spell weaving is to bring new love into your life, if you use
nothing but previously unused materials the spell will be all the more
effective and should bring a new love before the lunar month has passed.

You will need:

  • A heart-shaped rose petal (if this is not
    available, cut a heart shape out of a piece
    of red paper)
  • A clean sheet of white paper
  • A new pen
  • A pink candle
  • A new envelope


On the day when a new moon is due to appear in
the sky, write the following on a fresh sheet of paper
with the new pen:

As this heart glows in candlelight
I draw my love to me tonight.
And let it be done, that it harm no one.

When night falls and the moon has risen, bathe and get ready for bed.
Wearing freshly laundered (or new) nightclothes, light the candle and
read the spell aloud.

Now hold the rose petal or heart-shaped piece of paper in front of the
candle and see the flame shine through it. Place the heart and written
spell in the envelope and seal it with wax from the candle.

Put the envelope in a safe place and don’t give into the temptation to
touch it for 28 days, by which time new love should have come to you
(even if you do not recognize it at the time).

6. A Spell to Keep a Lover Faithful

This spell is cast to keep your partner faithful if you think he or she may
be tempted from the marital bed. It is intimate and brief because the
ingredients include two freshly laundered items of underwear – a pair of
your own and a pair belonging to your partner.

You will need:

  • Two nutmegs
  • A pair of your underwear
  • A pair of your partner’s underwear
  • Some wide red ribbon
  • A large envelope (white if possible)
  • A bolline or burin


Inscribe your name on one of the nutmegs and your partner’s name on
the other. That done, bind them together with the ribbon, saying these,
or similar words as you do so:

As I bind these fruits of tree
Lover, never stray from me.
And let it be done, that it harm no one.

Wrap the nutmeg in both pairs of underwear and put them in the
envelope. Slip this under his or her side of the bed. (If you put it under
the pillow, they would almost certainly feel it and wonder what you’ve
been up to!) But when they are away, you can remove it and put it under
your pillow.

For more love spells and other spells I recommend The Ultimate Encyclopedia of Spells by Michael Johnstone.

Love Incense

Love incense can help you in two ways. It can bolster the effects of the love spells. Light up the incense whilst performing the ritual to get in the right state of mind and imbue the spell with more energy. You can also use the incense when the person you desire is around to produce its inherent effect.

1. Attracting a Lover

  • 1 part lovage
  • 1/2 Orris Root (ground)
  • 1 part Lemon Verbena
  • 1/4 part Patchouli
  • Few drops of Lemon Verbena Oil

2. Love Enticing Incense

  • 1 part Violets
  • 1 part Rose Petals
  • 1/2 part Olive leaves

3. Fiery Passion Incense

  • 3/4 part Yohimbe
  • 1/2 part Cinammon
  • 1/4 part Ginger Root
  • 2 and a half parts Damiana
  • Few drops of Ambergris oil

4. Conceive a Child Incense

  • 1/2 part Mistletoe
  • 1 part Mandrake
  • 1 and a half part Motherwort
  • Few drops of Strawberry Oil

5. Divorce Incense

  • 1/2 part Frankincense Resin
  • 1/2 part Rue
  • 1/2 part Allspice
  • 1/4 part Marjoram
  • 3/4 part Pennyroyal
  • 1/2 part Yarrow
  • 1/8 part Camphor Resin
  • 1/2 part Sandalwood

For more love incense as well as other spells and enhancements, I recommend Natural Magic by Pamela J. Ball.

Final Thoughts on Black Magic Love Spells

These spells should not be taken lightly. If someone is treating you antagonistically it’s very risky to try and change their mind with black magic.

Especially if this is your first attempt at casting a spell, simply because your spells won’t have as much power as those of a more experienced magician. Therefore, their effects can backfire more easily on you, and that’s always the danger with black magic.

It’s much better to get to know the other person and try to win them over in a natural way as much as you can. If you need a final push in the right direction to make your already blossoming love come to light, then casting a spell can be of great use and without any significant risk. Otherwise, you could be in a lot of trouble later on. But it’s ultimately your choice. Hope this helps.

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