How to Summon a Succubus or Incubus: Full 5-Step Guide!
I’ve covered a lot of demon summoning rituals on this website. But the question on curiously many lips has remained unanswered till now: “How to summon a succubus or incubus?” In this article I’m spilling the beans on these bedroom demons and I’m unlocking the gates for all who are daring enough to play with them.
The reason for wanting to summon a succubus/incubus is quite understandable: you’re horny and want to experience erotic sensations bordering on the supernatural as opposed to ordinary copulation.
While there are different ways to summon a succubus or incubus depending on the magical tradition, I will share the Kabbalistic approach because it is most accessible to Westernized audiences. If you’re reading this you belong in that group. So here are the exact steps:
1. Ask Lilith for help
The main spirit of dark and demonic sexuality is Lilith. She is the Master (or in this case the Mistress) of all succubus and incubus spirits. In order to gain access to these sexually potent entities you will need to enter her qlipha or realm, psychologically and spiritually.
Qliphoth is the inverse of Sephiroth. In other words a demonic realm as opposed to an angelic realm in Kabbalah. Since we live in a physical universe, accessing any of these realms is inevitably a physical exercise also, because you have to feel a certain way to access it, and the feeling is facilitated by doing certain physical things.
Lilith operates on the lowest astral plane, one that we typically visit in dreams, which is dominated by dark, twisted, perverse eroticism. This is the place occupied by succubi and incubi who engage in sexual encounters with humans, regardless of whether humans visit them intentionally or unintentionally.
So you’re likely to (and probably have already) had sexual encounters with these entities, but you don’t remember them. After all, how many of your dreams do you remember at all? So our task is less about facilitating this encounter and more about being conscious of it when it happens and remembering the event afterwards. But don’t worry I will also share methods that will make it easier to connect with these spirits as well.
The first method involves ritualistically entering the Lilith Qlipha, this psychological and spiritual realm, which will holistically prepare you for meeting these spirits and being in control while doing so. In his highly revered book Qabalah, Qliphoth and Goetic Magic, occultist Thomas Karlsson explains:
An effective way to contact the Lilith Qlipha is to go out in the wild at night and meditate on the shadows and the darkness where objects are no longer visible and instead blur into a dark mist. This is where Lilith can be found. This darkness is her womb, and this is the goal of the magician’s invocations. Countless incantations have been used in attempts to banish Lilith, but for dark magicians in all ages invocations to contact her have also been created. If the following formula is chanted thirteen times, Lilith is supposed to appear:
marag ama lilith rimok samalo naamah
During contact with the Lilith Qlipha an abstract idea or a strong emotional impulse might be received. In other instances, the magician might encounter the demon ruler of the Qlipha or enter the Qliphotic tunnels.
There are other methods of connecting with Lilith that can be used alone or in combination with that one. The second method is found in the Tantric tradition, in which Lilith takes the name of Goddess Kali. Karlsson continues:
Muladhara is the energy zone that is located between the anus and the genitals, which is where the sleeping dragon (Kundalini) rests. One way to contact Lilith is to meditate on the Muladhara Chakra. It is compared to a red lotus, and the magician should meditate on the backside of the lotus in this case.

The third method is sigil magick. Sigils or seals are symbols attributed to various demons. Channeling your energy into a sigil by gazing into it with clear intent has the potential effect of summoning the spirit to do your bidding.
You can draw Lilith’s sigil on a piece of paper and gaze at it while imagining the result you want her to assist you with (in this case summoning a succubus/incubus). Here’s a simple example of sigil magick that can be used for this purpose:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Ncjv6IIzq0
UPDATE: Here’s another ritual for summoning Lilith.
2. Practice astral projection and lucid dreaming

While there is a slim chance that you will get into a deep trance state and have an encounter with these sexual spirits while awake, your chances are far better in the astral/dream plane of reality.
As mentioned previously, all of us have sexual encounters in the astral plane during sleep, we simply aren’t in control and don’t remember it afterwards. Being able to leave the body consciously while in meditation or to lucid dream will make you aware of the encounter AND allow you to pursue it any time at will.
The rope technique is the easiest method of astral travel. You essentially relax your body than lift yourself up from your body by imagining that you’re climbing an invisible rope connected to your heart or head. This is a proven technique with many testimonies and I explain it fully in this article. If you have any fears about astral projection read this short article as well.
When it comes to performing lucid dreaming there are many helpful techniques for “waking up in a dream”. Keeping a “dream journal” and writing down everything you remember immediately after waking up is very helpful. You will start to remember more and more of your dreams and at some point you will realize that you’re dreaming while in a dream because of this practice. Meditation is also very helpful, as is setting up an alarm after five hours of sleep, then going back to sleep. At this time you’re more likely to have a lucid dream. Afternoon naps are also a good time for lucid dreaming because you almost immediately enter the REM phase of sleep during naps.
I’ve shared a lot of information here about astral travel and lucid dreaming and I suggest you really get into these methods because they are the key to having awesome adventures in the astral/dream realm. After all, if you don’t remember and aren’t in control of your dreams, what’s the point of having them anyway? So read books on these topics, take courses, watch videos or simply implement these couple of tips in your daily routine immediately.
3. Use targeted binaural beats to astral project and lucid dream
I’ve had great success in both areas by listening to targeted binaural beats on my headphones. For those who are unaware, binaural beats are sound frequencies that can temporarily alter one’s state of consciousness. They do so because the brain is very receptive to these frequencies and responds accordingly.
While there are thousands of free videos on Youtube, the sound is often distorted and doesn’t work as it should. After all, we’re talking about specific frequencies that have to be nailed down or it simply can’t influence the brain. So if you want crystal clear sound I recommend listening to the premium (but still very affordable) Astral Projection and Lucid Dreaming binaural beats for this purpose.
I’ve discovered that simply relaxing on the bed while listening to these beats can lead to a projection after 10-15 minutes and create very interesting dreams. 🙂 However, I’m probably more experienced with both practices than most of my readers, and this is really about developing sensitivity in the brain to consciousness-altering stimulus. But regardless, the more you do it, the easier it becomes.
3. Alter your mental state
Some magicians and mystics use physical challenges or intoxicants to improve their spiritual results. The most common methods involve fasting, psychodelics, sleep deprivation etc.
As mentioned before, binaural beats are a safe and effective way to create the same temporary mental changes. Basically anything that will shift the person from ordinary sense perception to a trance-like state in which the line between reality and dream becomes blurry or almost non-existent will do.
This place between reality as we know it and other universal frequencies is inhabited by spiritual entities such as succubi and incubuses. By tuning yourself into their frequency consciously, you are more likely to meet them either awake or during sleep.
Of course, I can’t recommend doing anything physically extreme because there can be health risks involved with any such activities. It’s important to know one’s body and mind very well before performing any dangerous practice.
What I can say is that I’ve personally done 3 day water fasts and at one point I didn’t sleep for 3 days. Both fasting and sleep deprivation definitely have an impact on one’s psyche and can be utilized for magical purposes, but the risks should not be underestimated.
4. Protect yourself from vampirization
There is always danger involved when dealing with demonic spirits. In the previously mentioned book Qabalah, Qliphoth and Goetic Magic, Karlsson continues:
During astral journeys to the erotically magnetized worlds of Gamaliel (the lower astral plane), the magician will encounter the succubus and the incubus, female and male demonic lovers. They will invite the magician to an astral orgy in which even the smallest of the magician’s desires will be revealed. If giving in to weakness, the magician may be vampirized and left as an empty shell without energy. The magician must instead strive to use the orgy to reach the ecstatic states of mind that release the soul.
This is undeniably true. Every experience can be either positive or negative depending on how we react to it. If we remain passive or unconscious during the event, the succubus/incubus can use us in any way it pleases. If we are aware during the event, we can flip the table and be the ones extracting the pleasure and energy from the spirit.
In ideal circumstances, both parties will benefit from the event, and this result can be obtained only by being in control of oneself and not succumbing to temptations passively. In order to do so, practicing astral travel and lucid dreaming is important, otherwise we remain passive recipients of whatever we receive in our dreams, positive or negative. If we are in control, we can both create our circumstances and react to them positively throughout the journey, even remembering them upon entering back into the “real world”.
Final Word: How to Summon a Succubus or Incubus
Summoning any demon requires some preparation and knowledge. But the difference between summoning just any demon and summoning a succubus or incubus is that we usually want to actually see, taste and feel the latter. To illustrate my point further: I can summon Mammon to help me make more money.
In this case, Mammon can act as an invisible force, guiding me in the positive direction for my bank account. But if I want to summon a succubus, the succubus needs to visually appear before me and provide me with extraordinary pleasure. Otherwise, what’s the point of summoning a succubus? It doesn’t serve any philosophical purpose or long-term benefit like Mammon and related spirits. Well, if you want to ACTUALLY materialize a demon, the conditions have to be right. You have to role out the red carpet so to speak. This is why you must alter your own perception and enter the demon’s realm instead of expecting it to enter mundane reality. The astral plane/dreams are the ideal setting for making that happen.
Once you know the theory, the main task ahead is to increase your control over these realities by practicing astral travel and lucid dreaming, and getting really good at either one of them or both. So summoning these particular spirits is not as simple as many bloggers fishing for clicks would have you believe. But with the combination of the spiritual aid provided by Lilith and these common-sense methods (although this might sound weird when discussing any demonic magick), you WILL summon a succubus or incubus eventually. Keep your intent sharp and practice until the result materializes. This is the way of the (horny) warrior-magician.
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